The way I grew up was so conservative and controlled. If I ever have kids, their childhood will be so different from anything I had. I plan to be military for a very very long time so I know I’ll be moving around a lot. I don’t see myself settling down anywhere so it’s gonna be rough on my future partner and that scares me. Being a lesbian in the military is a rough thing because I won’t have the same rights as a heterosexual and I want to be able to support a family one day. Maybe not with kids, I don’t know that much yet, but for myself and a partner. I don’t know, I just have a lot on my mind right now.